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Today's Brides have come up against some serious issues affecting their wallet. I personally believe this is due to the wedding industry itself. I do love to look at all of the trade mags to see fresh ideas and tips on how to decorate, what to serve, gifts, etc. But, what these mags have done is actually make some brides feel they have to have it all. I find it is unfortunate that so much money is put into elaborate favors, chair covers, monogrammed everything, specialty lighting, etc. When I consult with a bride - I always discuss my top three most important reception services: food, entertainment and cake - in that order. That is where they should put their money first & foremost. I say that because when I work a reception, I like to check in with the guests to see how their evening is going and ask if they are in need of anything. Their most common responses are - "oh no, I am still so full", "Can you get me some new feet! They are killing me from dancing in these shoes" or "Who made that cake - it is absolutely gorgeous!" I have never, ever heard a guest say how cute the monogram on the favor was, how nicely the napkin matched the chair cover or how great it was that the flowers didn't obstruct their view across the table. While these touches may be special - if your on a limited budget focus that money on your food, entertainment and the cake. Why is the cake so important you say - well, how many weddings have you been to where guests are crowding the cheese display to take photos of it?