Diva's

So you have your four bridesmaids which are supposed to be at your moms house at noon to get dressed. You pre-paid hair and make-up stylists as a gift for them all but nobody shows. So, the calls begin with one question - Where are you? You gave them a schedule and asked them to please be there on time but they are all over the map. One is getting a pedi and decides to stay there for make-up. You can't reach two and are texting like crazy. The last is coming in late because she didn't know she was supposed to be there at 12:00 and made another appointment for 1:00. As a bride you are put in the position of basically - freaking out. People are going to be late and it's affecting your wedding day schedule not to mention your mood. If they are late, you will be late. All I can say is this is unacceptable. You should not feel that your day will be delayed because other people were not listening, forgot or otherwise don't care. Always remember that regardless of how many attendants you have - you are the only Diva today. Don't let selfishness ruin your mood. There needs only be five people at the church - you, your groom, two witnesses and the clergy. All the rest is gravy. So, don't let them stress you. And, believe me, I know that you did the rehearsal and you're thinking how you can have them not be in the wedding but it always works out and they will be there. Just because they are not at the house when they are supposed to be - doesn't mean you are not married at the end of the day.