A Gift

Having been married twice, I completely understand a Bride's need for an event coordinator. I happen to do it on a daily basis now, but at the time, I didn't know who (or not) to call when it came to the vendors I needed. My first wedding, I researched all of the vendors and the second - I went with the package deal - hey, I was busy! I made a lot of mistakes and wasted a lot of money - but the worst was that I didn't have anyone watching out for me! I know that everytime I see the cake knife the venue gave me - with the other wedding couples names on it - I made some mistakes. It is a remider of what minor things can go wrong at a wedding. But, I also know everyone has a budget and it is a costly service that some would consider a luxury. As far as that point goes, I don't feel that it is a luxury anymore but more of a necessity. But, again, I understand - as I paid for those two wedding myself and carefully budgeted each paycheck for a year. Because of those budgets, I have always thought that it would be a great gift to give to a bride whether by a family member or a truly special one from her groom. But, today, I was contacted by a Maid of Honor requesting info for her friend. She wanted to gift my services to her friend whose father is currently in hospice. Having lost my own father, my heart sunk. If I can think of any other time to book planner services, it would be then. A planner is going to free up your time - prescious time that can be spent with loved ones while in hospice. Even more true, a planner can work fast and produce a wedding within a very short period of time. This is the case for military brides as well. We know that you have so little time and it may seem overwhelming. With a planner - we know the right vendor to call for your buget, we know how to negotiate appropriate discounts, and what needs to be accomplished in a short period of time. The only way we differ from a bride - the planning is not an emotional decision. We are focused on your needs and what works best for your event. Especially, if you need handicap access or an on site nurse. Even though I know you need us, I also know that it may not be in your wedding budget to hire us. But, the gift of a wedding coordinator - is truly priceless.

An Honor...

Well, I must say that 2010 has started off beautifully! I have been so busy researching and scheduling appointments that I have neglected my blog. Sorry!! I am meeting some great vendors for this season and cannot wait to see what they produce. I am also super excited about the brides that we have booked this year. They are all real gals with great ideas for a super fun receptions and after parties to boot!! BUT, even more exciting was the message that hit me today from Weddingwire.com. We actually did it again!! We won the Brides Choice Award for 2010 for excellence in service! I couldn't have done it without my past brides. Every wedding, large or small, allowed me to grow as a planner in such a positive way. I am thrilled to begin our fourth season with Shelby by my side (and one more fresh face to be announced soon I hope). We are currently looking for another star to help me produce perfection! I am a stickler so it will be a tough decision but we have some great candidates! I am so excited for this year to unfold. We have lots of dates available. Don't forget, we only book one wedding per weekend so book early and actually enjoy your engagement (please). You deserve it Lovies!